tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17064937.post3893249075657349385..comments2023-04-10T08:00:26.980-04:00Comments on Once More, With Feeling: some thoughts on winding downtwirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03567870322657395706noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17064937.post-43901219355871321562007-11-06T17:13:00.000-05:002007-11-06T17:13:00.000-05:00I wrote a post of the exact same feelings this tim...I wrote a post of the exact same feelings this time last week. I will be sad to wake up and not have this baby so close to me that I can feel every movement. I will have to share our little one very soon, and despite being uncofortable at times I don't think I am ready for our closeness to end.<BR/><BR/>I told my Auntie this and she assured me that for the first few years you will be your baby's whole world still. She has an 18 year old who has just started to drive and assures me that these feelings of wanting to hold your baby forever never subside. I think that is a nice thing though...Mrs Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10680246554337953182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17064937.post-69185488820179262192007-11-06T16:39:00.000-05:002007-11-06T16:39:00.000-05:00i'm dealing with matching this being that is here ...i'm dealing with matching this being that is here now with the one that lived in me for so long. i thought i knew her then, but she's so much more complex than that. it is very nice sharing her with b, though. i'm sure you'll enjoy it, too.Furrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08617566957749784387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17064937.post-91355437310396059912007-11-05T20:53:00.000-05:002007-11-05T20:53:00.000-05:00I remember thinking how nice it was that I got to ...I remember thinking how nice it was that I got to take Gatito *everywhere* with me before he was born, and that I felt a bit mournful about him being on the outside, as well. Of course I was anxious to get him out where I felt he'd be safer, but it was sort of a mixed thing. It *must* be weird to be the man and so separate from it. Men and women experience pregnancy so incredibly differently. I mean, obviously we do. But when you really think about it sometimes-- wow.Cat, Gallopinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04867271192971274545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17064937.post-24411275014745746322007-11-05T20:52:00.000-05:002007-11-05T20:52:00.000-05:00I totally *get it* even though I haven't experienc...I totally *get it* even though I haven't experienced it. And I thank you for writing it because we all have thoughts that seem odd or we're afraid to share and actually they are really just a normal process of becoming who we are. <BR/><BR/>Enjoy her being just yours for now. I suspect she'll always be that, to some degree, because I know there is no one who could ever take the place of my Mom. Ever.<BR/><BR/>I hope your throat feels better.Irish Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13222992447645337845noreply@blogger.com